Are you a priority of the people you priotise?

Cheers to friendships 🥂- I’ve been intending to share my friendship experiences for a while but I wasn’t sure where to start. I have met amazing people in my life and I know the bonds I share with my friends are quite rare. With this friendship for one. Do you have a friend you vibe with about almost everything but in the same breath, you are completely different and want completely different things even in life. That’s the friendship I want to share today. We could both be thinking of the same outfit without even discussing it because great mind think alike.

This is how our friendship started actually on Facebook we liked almost everything about each other. Now we have such a beautiful bond and it’s been 6 years of great times. Not only are we friends but I also do most of her styling and help her with shopping as we have a similar taste in clothing. When we have a date we plan out outfits and it’s forever exciting because we always think of the same clothes all the time. On this particular day, we decided on white Tees and jeans. She decided to pair it with red heels I decided to go with white sneakers.

It’s so important to have friendships with people who share the same values with you and yet aren’t afraid to share their feelings whenever they don’t agree with you about other things. It’s also important to have friends who have their own goals and ambitions. I remember when she said to me “You can’t be friends with someone who wants your life”.

Life has a way of leading you to people and environments that are aligned to your purpose and priorities. There is always someone willing to listen and help you be the best version of yourself. All you and I need to do is to have our priorities in check. We need to know what our purpose in this life is. Fill your life with dreams and goals,
Who is sitting in the front row seat of your goals? Do they share the same values as you?

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